Moira Weigel is a historian and author of the recent book Labor of Love, in which she chronicles how dating has always been difficult, and always been in flux. Though it was a goodhearted attempt to make the experience seem more real and less like a creepy AIM chatroom, people especially women were pissed.
You go through them just about as efficiently as possible, as fast as your little thumb can swipe, so you use up more romantic possibilities more quickly. OkCupid may thats able to change your mind.
I feel less motivated to message people, I get fewer messages from others than I used to, and the exchanges I do have tend to fizzle out before they become dates. If you're woke, liberal, and horrified by the dumpster fire that is our current political climate, this is the site for you.
If you're feeling hopeless about finding love at all, you won't be after being on OkCupid.