On the downside, the website is more of a Facebook for horny people than an all-encompassing hookup site. Image: Pexels. Gay men just don't connect the same way straight couples do. That old saying, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink from the pool"?
Being modest means you are more likely to listen to your date, and could actually become aware of their feelings faster than louder personality types. Then my brain gives me a reality check and laughs at me.
There are choices one can make. R8, of you're still keeping up with this thread, are you and your guy still together? What's so nice about ALT is that it gives you the chance to find a quick hookup or just meet new people who are into the same stuff you are — without having to worry that you'll be judged.
No one is coming to my funeral.