Reddit: Gay or queer understand. Those like you are the the ones constraining me, by limiting my choices to either Queer or Normal. Is there a list so we can all minimize the miscommunication? I point out that I dated bi guys and they were loyal to me we broke up for other reasons.
From my perspective, it's because the LGBT community is more about "deviating" from the societal expectations of how someone is supposed to act because of the sex they were assigned at birth.
The word queer will always mean different things to different people, so it's hard to give you a definitive answer to your question. Want to join? Looking for some perspective regarding a new friend self. But the fact is that being gay has had such an immense impact on the way that I have to navigate the world that it's become an integral part of who I am.
Instead queer, gaslights everyone to find the community so complicated that no discussion happens, leading to slower advancement of rights.