It's not easy for anybody, unless you look like Brad Pitt. Designed to be deleted. May your search prove fruitful and may you not only find a partner but perhaps yourself along the way. Wise up. I do not know how we can solve the dating problem but it's a problem both sexes have.
Think about it. He does exist. Now Feminism is everywhere. I have only been able to go on a hand full of meet and greets only to find no connection. And yes, we can tell when you're desperate.